Monday, November 14, 2005

What's the next step?

Since you are my rock and my fortress, for the sake of your name lead and guide me. Psalm 31:3
Today, Bill and Rhetta have been actively looking at the next possible facility for Adam. Please pray for knowledge and wisdom (and the right mix of acceptance and advocacy) so that he winds up in a place with a good match. They feel they have found one such place that has a rehab facility as well as a hospital floor to cut down on transferring back and forth with each bump in the road. (I'm sorry I don't recall the name that was told to me.)
Again, another day of many reminders of the goodness of having support and love from other people, even some strangers. We are grateful.
Many years ago, a recovering alcoholic gave me an idea that I have used many times, and it has always proved to be true and useful. He said that, even in the darkest times he had an idea of the "next right thing" to do, maybe just a baby step in very limited vision. Then once that step was taken, the "next right thing" became clear, and if he continued taking these small steps, eventually even the biggest challenges were manageable. The key was taking those steps he knew to take and not waiting for daylight or full understanding (which may never arrive) before taking action.
Some days, like the last few days, it's not even one day at a time, but one very tiny moment at a time. Thanks to all who are on the journey with us for giving understanding and ideas, as well as support and love. And thanks to those who are able to see a little farther over the horizon who give us inspiration.

4 Comments:

At 6:51 AM, November 15, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, your blog sounds like it contains some really good quality advice that you can apply to your every day. In fact, I think I'll apply it to my every day living as well. Yesterday I said I felt like I was walking on an oil slick in my life. It must feel so much more so for you. My prayers will continue for stability in all things and improvement in all things.
Love,
Laura

 
At 7:21 AM, November 15, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bill, Rhetta & Boys: Baby steps sometimes are all we have to make it through the next minute. But the best part comes when we remember that we are not stepping alone! Although there will be times when you wonder if anyone is there -- that's okay -- We are here intervening before the Father for you and he NEVER leaves -- even if we forget that he is there! Keep on loving, believing, and knowing! We will keep up the prayers!

Love and peace today -- Pam & Boys

 
At 1:28 PM, November 15, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear fellow travelers. My heart bleeds for many reasons today. Our children are just so precious. The thought of losing them is beyond comprehension. Yet, all to real recently. I know that we will all perservere, and that our children will go on to lift his name higher than before. Rest in his promises and cover yourself with his perfect peace.
God will win this one, and our children will be even more special than they already are.

Ellis, you are wiser than your years. Make sure that your folks know what a great job they did!

Tara, I share your pain and pray that it is lessened for us all by the bond that we share.

Shermans, I would much rather be able to turn the clock back in time for a do-over, than to have to visit this blog so frequently. How life can change in an instant. Please know that you continue in my prayers and that I have the highest regard for all of you. Keep the faith. Be good to one another.

Carol in KY

 
At 7:08 AM, November 16, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh, do I love that Bruce said that Adam's strength is real! I feel it too. Adam, I look forward to shaking your hand and looking up to you as you stand before me so that I can see the mighty oak of a man that God created to withstand a cross of this magnitude.
Laura

 

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